I’m a 29-year-old bachelorette who’s not ready to get married yet. Not wanting to be someone’s wife can be problematic in a world that often defines a woman’s status by a ring on her finger and having a serious significant other in the picture. God forbid you be single, whole on your own, and out here living your best life… you may worry or threaten people with your singleness and bachelorette lifestyle.
This is not to mention the concerns and pressures from different family members, friends, and even acquaintances who often ask, “Why are you still single?”
“Why do you care?” is what I’d like to know. The pressure. The questions. The comparisons.Read More